Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality by Adrian Gabriel Dumitru Explores the Illusions of Love Duality and Human Suffering
Bucharest, Romania, 7th Oct 2025 – Author Adrian Gabriel Dumitru continues his bold exploration of duality in human relationships with his latest release, Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality: Essays About Duality. This deeply personal and raw collection delves into the illusions of love, the contradictions of human connection, and the endless cycle of emotional suffering that often masquerades as normality.
Known for his fearless reflections on the complexities of the man–woman dynamic, Dumitru presents essays that oscillate between protest, vulnerability, and reluctant acceptance. His words reveal the paradox of seeking meaning in relationships that often feel like prisons with invisible walls—confining, painful, yet strangely impossible to escape.
A Confrontation with Illusion and Reality
At the heart of Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality lies Dumitru’s struggle with duality. He describes love as both a stage play and a nightmare, a paradox where moments of connection are laced with humiliation and torment. For the author, the metaphor of “being phlegmed” represents the degradation and absurdity that often accompanies love stories. Yet, despite acknowledging the absurdity, he admits to being unable to detach himself from women, describing the experience as a never-ending cycle of longing and suffering.
“Duality itself is the illusion,” Dumitru writes. “The spell. The curse.” His words resonate with readers who have felt the same contradictions in their own relationships—caught between affection and despair, intimacy and distance, dreams and disillusionment.
Essays that Serve as Emotional Testimonies
Rather than offering solutions, Dumitru provides raw testimony. Each essay reads as a fragment of lived experience, combining reflection, self-analysis, and confessional storytelling. His voice is simultaneously philosophical and deeply personal, exposing the inner conflicts that define love and human connection.
The essays capture what Dumitru calls a “weird illogical cocktail of good and bad energies,” portraying relationships as both magnetic and destructive. By framing these reflections as part of a larger exploration of duality, he challenges readers to confront their own illusions about love and normality.
A Universal Reflection Told Through Personal Struggle
Although rooted in the author’s personal experiences, the themes explored in Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality are universal. The book speaks to anyone who has endured the contradictions of love—moments of beauty overshadowed by pain, and the desperate hope for resolution that never arrives.
Dumitru’s honesty, even when describing humiliation and despair, transforms his work into a mirror for readers. His essays remind us that the illusions of love are not solitary experiences but shared struggles across human relationships.
Availability Across Major Platforms
Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality: Essays About Duality is now available worldwide in digital format. Readers can explore the book on their preferred platform:
- Amazon Kindle: Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality on Amazon
- Google Play Books: Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality on Google Play
- Apple Books: Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality on Apple Books
About the Author
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru is a Romanian author known for his thought-provoking essays on duality, relationships, and human self-discovery. His works—including The Nonsense Seen as Normality, Illusory Thoughts, The Sickness of My Reality, and Chasing for Feeding My Soul with Certain Vibes but Failing—form a larger tapestry of reflection on the illusions and contradictions that shape human existence.
A Voice of Protest and Vulnerability
With Being Phlegmed Seen as Normality, Dumitru cements his role as a writer unafraid to confront uncomfortable truths. His essays challenge readers to recognize the illusions within their own love stories, to reflect on the dualities of human connection, and to see beyond what is often accepted as “normal.”
Company Details
Organization: Dezibel Media
Contact Person: Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Website: https://dezibelmedia.ro
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City: Bucharest
Country: Romania
Release Id: 07102535021